{"id":8730,"date":"2021-01-01T06:17:46","date_gmt":"2021-01-01T06:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/?p=8730"},"modified":"2021-01-01T06:38:10","modified_gmt":"2021-01-01T06:38:10","slug":"family-and-friends-caused-me-to-divorce-my-loving-husband-n","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/?p=8730","title":{"rendered":"“Family and friends caused me to divorce my loving husband” Nakhumicha narrates."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

How friends and family forced me to divorce my loving husband” Writes a divorced lady.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Marriage is for two.When you invite a third party,a catastrophy knocks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lynda Nakhumicha (not her real name narrates)…..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am 32 years of age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We where best of friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I waited until he completed college and started work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My family and his family then met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We got married and had a son. (12 years old now).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I never wanted divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was arrested and detained.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We were divorced in 2009 July.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My family members are gossiping about me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know I wasted my
marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t be cheated, don’t entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no benefit in pride for nothing. 😢😢😢😢<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SOMETIMES IT’S NOT THE MAN’S FAULT AT ALL, IT’S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVICE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How friends and family forced me to divorce my loving husband” Writes a divorced lady. Marriage is for two.When you invite a third party,a catastrophy knocks. Lynda Nakhumicha (not her real name narrates)….. I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws. I …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":8736,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8730","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tie-life-style"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8730","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8730"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8730\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8735,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8730\/revisions\/8735"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8730"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8730"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goodmorningkenya.com\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8730"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}